
Why Do We Let the Little Things Bother Us So Much?
APR 29, 2019
Why do we let the little things bother us so much? I believe this happens more often than not...
Why do we let the little things bother us so much? I believe this happens more often than not to us all; we let easily overlooked details trouble us to such an extent. For example, seemingly insignificant details like going out with somebody you weren't intrigued by or getting a terrible grade that won’t affect you. At that point, discovering that someone’s decision broke your trust or that the grade wound up being for some odd reason, we tend to associate these little things as a direct connection to our self-esteem. If the situation persists, it stings the most.
I, most definitely, do not believe that I would have affections for any of the minuscule things. That is certainly not what, more often than not, drives me to a state of discontent. As the well-known adage goes, “The wind blows, and the leaves change.” To illustrate this, when your leaf—once a charitable green leaf of growth—fades into the browns of your past, that is where your discontent lies. It wasn’t on the missed opportunity, but the falseness on which it happened, blowing in the painful memories of the past of things that did, in fact, mean something. Consequently, when those seemingly insignificant things trouble you, don’t neglect the little things you once thought were meaningless; understand why they make you feel lesser. It’s not because you find significance in them or care for them; it’s because they remind you of the vital things in your life.
The wind blows leaves so it may free the earth of the weakening browns of our past to prepare for more to fall, so the tree may grow more leaves of green. So let the leaves change, let the wind blow those of the old, bedraggled past, and may only the leaves of value never fade. I wish you to accept the tiny disappointments and take them graciously, as they are not a reflection of you but a reminder of the person you may yet become.
— by Helen Najar, Lionheart